My Girlfriend Loves Spending on Me but Refuses to Cook – Nigerian Man Seeks Advice. A Nigerian man is grappling with the contrasting traits of his girlfriend, leaving him to ponder if she holds feminist beliefs.
He noted that while she doesn’t mind footing bills and expenses for him, she adamantly refuses to cook.
Considering marriage, he is troubled by her stance that cooking isn’t solely a woman’s duty, as she believes household responsibilities should be shared.
Seeking counsel anonymously, he shared his dilemma on a messaging platform.
My girlfriend is pretty, smart and caring so much that she’d rather use her money to buy stuffs for us than accept from me. My fear is she has an undertone of a Feminist. Recently she argued it’s not women’s role to cook for the household that it’s a joint thing. Could this be a red flag for a wife.”