I want to marry someone like my current boyfriend, but not my current boyfriend,” said a Lady called Nana. A young South African woman has sparked discussions online after revealing her desire to marry a man who treats her as well as her current boyfriend does. Taking to social media, user @Nanazille shared her thoughts on the type of partner she envisions for her future.
According to her, her current boyfriend embodies the qualities of an ideal partner, but she hopes to find someone similar to him, albeit not him specifically.
She explained, “I want to marry someone like my current boyfriend but not my current boyfriend. Everything that man is just transferred to another man.”
The woman emphasized her preference for a South African partner for the sake of convenience, clarifying that her current boyfriend is not South African but dismissing speculations about his appearance, financial status, or marital status.
Addressing potential critics, she asserted her right to have preferences and expressed frustration with those who take offense, stating, “Ya’ll don’t know my relationship nor the dynamics. You find offense in me stating my preference, when the person I am dating doesn’t, the problem is you.” Her remarks have sparked a variety of reactions online, with some supporting her stance and others expressing confusion or disagreement.
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