Doyin Shares Why She Won’t Be a Full-Time Housewife: Talks About Money and Respect. Doyin, a reality star, recently articulated her reluctance to embrace the role of a full-time housewife in a video posted on her Instagram story. In her candid explanation, she expressed reservations about the prospect of her husband undergoing changes that might affect his ability to provide for her and their children.
Furthermore, Doyin emphasized the importance of financial independence, contending that men tend to exhibit greater respect towards women who are self-sufficient.
Her words …
“I will never be a full-time housewife. Number one, people change. What if he [my future husband] changes? What if he meets another girl and then he stops catering for me and my kids?
Number two, there’s this level of respect that comes with having your own money like when your partner knows you can provide. You don’t need to ask them for everything. You can handle certain things in the house. And I would really like to have that respect in my marriage.
“And third, there are certain things that are out of our control. What if he dies? God forbid. We don’t pray for that but what if he dies? How am I going to sustain myself and my kids? So, sustainability is a very big thing for me. At least, I would have a business.”